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別被自己困住了

頭銜 體制 名稱 身分認同 事情
人很容易被外在的頭銜、體制的名稱,和自己賦予自己的身分認同給綁住。一旦有了某種定位,做事情就綁手綁腳。
We tend to trap ourselves into certain titles, positions, or identities. Once you won a title(or gave yourself one), you become constrained.
我被自己一直以來追求的某個目標給限制住了,最近感覺該設一個停損點,否則腦袋天天轉啊轉快炸了,人也不開心,沒辦法好好生活,即使確實有些非常開心的時刻,也被自己的雜念給破壞了。
I’ve been stuck in something that I’ve been pursuing for a long time and came to a point where I need to stop, otherwise my overly functioning brain is going to explode. I’m not happy, couldn’t enjoy life, even joyful moments were ruined by my stubborn, negative thoughts.
人家說拋開過去,重新再來。至理名言總是咀嚼容易,反芻困難。當落在自己身上的時候,我以為我真的已經拋開過去了,其實還在鑽牛角尖。
There is a saying that we should let go of the past, start all over and move on. Well, those words are easier said than done. When it’s my turn to let go, I thought I did, but actually, I’m obsessed with nostalgia.
2020年真是不安穩的一年,你會發現,越是亂世,你是*誰*越不重要,重要的是,你過得好嗎?過得好的定義是什麼?當我什麼都不是的時候,每天起床還能夠看看外面說:「今天天氣不錯耶!」能保有這樣的心情,就是過得好了。
2020 is a tough year. (Not the toughest, but still tough) Then I realize, the more chaotic the world is, the less important of "who" you are. (by who, I mean the title) What matters is  " Are you having a good time? ” My definition of " Having a good time ” is that even I’m a nobody when waking up in the morning, I’ll still be pleased by the sunshine coming through the window and say:「What a nice day!」
#頭銜  #體制  #名稱  #身分認同  #事情 
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講真心話,不要再講正確的廢話啦!這樣看自己寫出來的文章,才會有療癒感

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